This is a wonderful use of graphic and text to produce an insightful set of eight essays highlighting difficult lessons learned in our twenties. In a funny juxtaposition, I’m also listening to Jordan B. Peterson’s audiobooks, 12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos, and Beyond Order: 12 More Rules for Life. Ng’s book demonstrates the difficult lessons we all must go through to reach a functional level of adulting, with a series of creative metaphors and gentle humor.

The chapter entitled “Gum” is very witty, using the idea of gum stuck to our shoe, in our hair, and on our heart as an illustration of our first love, and how we can take the good, learn from the bad, and move forward as an integrated adult who is free to love again. So clever. “Space Dust” uses the observation of shooting stars as a metaphor for forming new friendships as an adult. The level of detail, how Ng honestly examines her behavior from various angles and points of views, and ties the experiences and lessons together so neatly, makes for a tight, complete, satisfying essay.

All eight essays are filled with good humor, witty observations, and raw honesty. She really puts herself out there, bravely. I admire her candor, as well as her gentle sense of humor. Much to be learned here, for all adults, regardless of age. And her subtitle is true, it will all make sense eventually, or at least more will make sense than at the start. Highly recommended.